Coleson has had 3 doses of the chemo Cytoxin and so far is doing well. He is still energetic during the days and seems to be feeling good with the exception of 2 small vomiting episodes. He is sleeping well at night as well. He is starting to slow down on eating and drinking and I'm sure we will be switching to g-tube feeds within a few days. I think this is the "honeymoon" period of chemo and it will take a few days for the side affects to kick in. It is a gradual build up which is welcomed after the immediate in your face side effects of the Campath. Tomorrow is his last day of Cytoxin and then we switch to 4x daily doses of Busalfen. These are 2 hr transfusions @ 4am/pm and 10am/pm.
Rachel arrived last night and is going to stay with Coleson this evening so Paul and I can go for a run. Speaking of which I need to send a big Thank You to Sole Sports or the wonderful care package they sent full of toys, games, puzzles, crafts, etc. and some running maps/shirts for us. This was an amazing surprise. I'm sure Claudia had something to do with this as well so I thank her as well. We continue to get support from colleague and friends via emails, cards, etc. and each one is very appreciated. I am finding little time to update my blog much less send personal thank yous so I hope you all know that we do appreciate each piece of support no matter what form it takes. I am really focused on keeping Coleson's development going while he has the energy to do so when he is awake it is mostly play time, singing and dancing and reading.
Today was Peyton's last day at Aunt Ems where she had so much fun. Less than 1 week until Grandma & Grandpa bring her back... and I can't wait, although I know it will be hard for her to see Coleson in the hospital. 1 week from today is his transplant day. The procedure itself is pretty uneventful but the significance unquantifiable.
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Wednesday, July 17, 2013
Sunday, July 14, 2013
T-10 Checked in to our new pad!
Today we checked into our new place - Room 4138. We decked it out with his Coleson banner and his UmiZoomi stickers to make it more "homey". I also have my "good day" button and my "30 Days of Inspirations" cards sitting next to my couch/bed. Thanks to everyone who has been so thoughtful to give these items to us.
Over the past 4 days we've been to neuropsych to determine that he is still testing at the average level for his age for the most part. He has progressed in his gross motor skills but is still testing a little low for the responsive communication (things like "go get the ball" or "please bring me the ball"). At his ophthalmology appt. we learned he is nearsighted and astigmatisms with some cornea clouding and retina damage so he will need glasses. I really wasn't prepared to hear that since he "seems" to see fine. But this disease hides out in every inch of the body so I guess I shouldn't be too surprised. I'm thankful his heart and lungs are so strong.
Friday he had surgery again to replace his central line. Wayne and Jim (colleagues from HW) stopped by to spend time with us while he was in surgery and we learned a lot about the U of M campus and Minneapolis in general.
Saturday he woke up full of energy and also missing one of his line caps! It must not have been tightened enough coming out of surgery (as there is no way he can get it off himself). We were fortunate the line was clamped (and those clamps don't always stay shut) as he could have bled out and I don't know if I would have woken up in the middle of the night to realize it. Lesson learned...double check the Dr.s and Nurses work!
Janna (another colleague) and her husband Steve came over and brought us some dinners and a "Cars" book for Coleson and stayed for lunch put on by one of the many organizations that donate their time to feed us. Watch out Honeyweller's, Janna got inspired while she was at the RMH!
Then we got an unexpected (but welcomed) visit from Cary (another colleague) Saturday afternoon. We spoke about the "Minneapolis" stats like the 2nd most congested city and the 2nd most "fit" city. I failed to tell him I also learned it was also rated the 4th most "Snobbiest" city behind Boston, San Fran and Seattle. I'm surprised by this last stat as we've only met friendly people here. Although it is mostly Dr.s and Nurses! We so appreciated our visits over the weekend, it definitely helps to know we have friends nearby.
After Cary left we toured the surrounding area and on a recommendation from Janna & Steve, we drove through Como Park. What an amazing park! It has an amusement park, zoo, lake, pool, etc. We didn't get out as there were a lot of people there and with Coleson's compromised immune system, we didn't want to risk it. We definitely will take Peyton there when she gets here.
Today he was full of energy again, unfortunately we spent much of the day in the hospital. They just started his antibiotics, antifungal meds and will start his "IV Flush" at 10:00pm. We start Chemo #2 (Cytoxin) tomorrow which can form crystals in the bladder so they have to pump him full of fluids over the next 5 days and we have to change his diaper every 2 hrs. to ensure he is peeing it out.
Peyton has been having so much fun at Aunt Em's house. She's gone to the pool, Lake Michigan, Aunt Nik's house, McDonald's etc. She is having fun sleeping over and from what I hear Lincoln's bunk beds are full of all the kids.. and Aunt Em. I'm afraid she will disappointed to come her next week. Although she does get "Sleepy" when we Skype with her which I think is code word for "I miss you and I'm sad that Coleson's owies aren't all gone yet."
Over the past 4 days we've been to neuropsych to determine that he is still testing at the average level for his age for the most part. He has progressed in his gross motor skills but is still testing a little low for the responsive communication (things like "go get the ball" or "please bring me the ball"). At his ophthalmology appt. we learned he is nearsighted and astigmatisms with some cornea clouding and retina damage so he will need glasses. I really wasn't prepared to hear that since he "seems" to see fine. But this disease hides out in every inch of the body so I guess I shouldn't be too surprised. I'm thankful his heart and lungs are so strong.
Friday he had surgery again to replace his central line. Wayne and Jim (colleagues from HW) stopped by to spend time with us while he was in surgery and we learned a lot about the U of M campus and Minneapolis in general.
Saturday he woke up full of energy and also missing one of his line caps! It must not have been tightened enough coming out of surgery (as there is no way he can get it off himself). We were fortunate the line was clamped (and those clamps don't always stay shut) as he could have bled out and I don't know if I would have woken up in the middle of the night to realize it. Lesson learned...double check the Dr.s and Nurses work!
Janna (another colleague) and her husband Steve came over and brought us some dinners and a "Cars" book for Coleson and stayed for lunch put on by one of the many organizations that donate their time to feed us. Watch out Honeyweller's, Janna got inspired while she was at the RMH!
Then we got an unexpected (but welcomed) visit from Cary (another colleague) Saturday afternoon. We spoke about the "Minneapolis" stats like the 2nd most congested city and the 2nd most "fit" city. I failed to tell him I also learned it was also rated the 4th most "Snobbiest" city behind Boston, San Fran and Seattle. I'm surprised by this last stat as we've only met friendly people here. Although it is mostly Dr.s and Nurses! We so appreciated our visits over the weekend, it definitely helps to know we have friends nearby.
After Cary left we toured the surrounding area and on a recommendation from Janna & Steve, we drove through Como Park. What an amazing park! It has an amusement park, zoo, lake, pool, etc. We didn't get out as there were a lot of people there and with Coleson's compromised immune system, we didn't want to risk it. We definitely will take Peyton there when she gets here.
Today he was full of energy again, unfortunately we spent much of the day in the hospital. They just started his antibiotics, antifungal meds and will start his "IV Flush" at 10:00pm. We start Chemo #2 (Cytoxin) tomorrow which can form crystals in the bladder so they have to pump him full of fluids over the next 5 days and we have to change his diaper every 2 hrs. to ensure he is peeing it out.
Peyton has been having so much fun at Aunt Em's house. She's gone to the pool, Lake Michigan, Aunt Nik's house, McDonald's etc. She is having fun sleeping over and from what I hear Lincoln's bunk beds are full of all the kids.. and Aunt Em. I'm afraid she will disappointed to come her next week. Although she does get "Sleepy" when we Skype with her which I think is code word for "I miss you and I'm sad that Coleson's owies aren't all gone yet."
Wednesday, July 10, 2013
T-14 Another day in the life
After enjoying our Sunday back at RMH, we had his inthrathecal injection and ABR sedated hearing test on Monday. We got some bad news in that he has mild hearing loss in both ears and needs hearing aids. He can't hear high pitched sounds which include the isolated letters/sounds of S, Th, Sh, Ch and F. Kids some times have a heard time understanding plurals if they can't hear the S sound. As we suspected, due to his narrow airway, they had problems intubating him and I know his throat must hurt afterward. We had a longer than expected recovery (4 hrs.) wait due to having his first round of chemo and having a suppressed immune system. Tuesday we actually had a free day from the hospital which we needed. Today was his ERT day and we started off with a clogged line. After x- rays and a 2 hr. delay they determined that the line was still in place so they ran an anti-clogging med through his line and it cleared it. However late in the day the radiologist looked at the line and since the "cuff" that was supposed to be under the skin had been exposed (pulled out) the line has to be replaced before we do chemo again. So another surgery and a another sedation scheduled for Friday. I'm not sure which is worse.
I met another Hurler family tonight at RMH. The mother had emailed me a while back and her son was diagnosed/ had his BMT at the same age as Coleson. He is 7 years out and looks great but has undergone numerous surgeries and is back for another hip replacement surgery. As I've said, this BMT is only the beginning.... It is always so nice to meet another family and Hurler kid. It truly gives me hope, which I needed today.
Before I forget, we had several packages delivered to us today at the hospital and I want to thank all of you for the care packages, cards, gifts, Banners, "support", :) etc. We have the best of friends and are very thankful. Tomorrow is Neuropsych so no needles, blood, tubes, sedation, or enzymes! Just "play", to see where he stands developmentally.
Also, we've met some wonderful families and kids here, all with there own story/battle. We also have a colleague/friend that has been battering his own cancer journey for the last 18 months. All of which could use your thought, prayers tonight.
I met another Hurler family tonight at RMH. The mother had emailed me a while back and her son was diagnosed/ had his BMT at the same age as Coleson. He is 7 years out and looks great but has undergone numerous surgeries and is back for another hip replacement surgery. As I've said, this BMT is only the beginning.... It is always so nice to meet another family and Hurler kid. It truly gives me hope, which I needed today.
Before I forget, we had several packages delivered to us today at the hospital and I want to thank all of you for the care packages, cards, gifts, Banners, "support", :) etc. We have the best of friends and are very thankful. Tomorrow is Neuropsych so no needles, blood, tubes, sedation, or enzymes! Just "play", to see where he stands developmentally.
Also, we've met some wonderful families and kids here, all with there own story/battle. We also have a colleague/friend that has been battering his own cancer journey for the last 18 months. All of which could use your thought, prayers tonight.
Sunday, July 7, 2013
T-17 An Extra Night's stay but Temporarily Going Home Today
Todd - I thought of you and Ethan, although after an x-ray it is still in position thankfully.
Tomorrow he has to be sedated for his intrathecal (spinal) injection of the Enzyme and an ABR and hearing aid fitting. It will be a tough day of sedation so please send your love our way!
Peyton is having a lot of fun in Michigan. She is playing with cousins and friends, swimming, washing pigs (my nieces and nephew show them at the county fair this week), jumping in the hay bails, and attending a George family Reunion yesterday. I heard she hung out with cousin Rob, caught 2 fish, played with Caden explaining they were cousins and wanted to jump off the high dive (I think it's like 20 ft up?) Again, Tenacious P! She misses her brother and wants to know if his "owies" are gone. I hate to keep telling her "not yet".
Here are our addresses, please feel free to send us cards, letters, etc. Peyton loves to get mail!
University of Minnesota Amplatz Children's Hospital
2450 Riverside Ave.
BMT Ward 4 - Coleson David
Minneapolis, MN 55454
Ronald McDonald House
(Our Name) RM 441
621 Oak St. SEMinneapolis, MN 55414
Thursday, July 4, 2013
T-20 Happy and Peaceful 4th of July!
We can see the fireworks from our 4th floor room with a view (the windows are full length). Thankfully Coleson is having a peaceful and restful second dose of Campath after having his ERT today. He didn't eat much today and was overall lethargic but I'm hoping it means he will sleep better tonight. He usually does after ERT but then again, he usually doesn't have a chaser of chemo!
We made it into the RMH today and met another Hurler couple who we have been following. There is also another Hurler child still in his post 30 day stay who I hope we will also get to meet. I hope you all enjoyed your 4th. I look forward to next year's when we can watch fireworks as a family hopefully over Lake Michigan.
We made it into the RMH today and met another Hurler couple who we have been following. There is also another Hurler child still in his post 30 day stay who I hope we will also get to meet. I hope you all enjoyed your 4th. I look forward to next year's when we can watch fireworks as a family hopefully over Lake Michigan.
The Countdown Begins! T-21
Wow, That Sucked! I wish I had more positive things to post about our first night of chemo but there really isn't any except that it is over.. and this was supposed to be the easier one. We got admitted at 10:30am and didn't start the chemo until after 9:00pm. I thought perhaps this wouldn't be so bad as maybe he would sleep through most of it but boy was I wrong. I'm about to get graphic so if you have a weak stomach you may not want to read further. However this blog serves as my historical record and also for future Hurler BMT parents and so I need to put it all out there.
As I was saying, we started the Campath soon after 9:00 and within 15 minutes he had awoken from his sleep so I put him on my lap. Within maybe 10 more minutes, just as the nurse left, he started vomiting. So I called her in and she cleaned him up and I cleaned myself up. We left him in his bed as he had fallen back asleep. He again was restless after another 10 or so minutes and I tried to soothe him but again he vomited. After another round of clean up he wasn't fallen back asleep so I held him in the chair again. The nurse asked if I wanted any anti-nausea medication and I said lets just give it a few minutes and see if he falls back asleep. She left and almost immediatly he acted like he was going to get sick again but he didn't have anything left in him. So we gave him the anti-nausea and he finally was able to fall asleep. Near the end of the 2 hr infusion, just when I thought we were in the clear, my lap became very wet. So we had stopped it from coming out the top but it now moved to the bottom. Again a ring to the nurse and I had to break into the "Comfy" clothes that my college girlfriends had sent all of us and were waiting in our room when we arrived. Then the shakes started.. and the fever. I really wasn't prepared for the shakes which lasted over an hour. This was probably the hardest part as they wouldn't stop no matter how much I tried to hold him close and I know that how tight shaking makes your body. At about 1:00am those finally stopped and again we took position in the recliner. At about 2:30am I put him back in his bed and got some sleep myself, about 3 hrs worth. During that time they did give him more Tylenol and an Antibiotic which the Drs. said would most likely be needed since kiddos almost always have a fever.
Today we have ERT on top of the Campath and a sleep study tonight. It will be an interesting mix.
In other news - Paul wasn't feeling well yesterday so he went back to the hotel at around 2:00 so he missed the whole thing. Which is good since he doesn't do well with the gorey stuff and I will need a reprive today to do the laundry and make get a good nap in. We also got a call about noon yesterday saying we got into the RMH. What timing! So Paul is moving our stuff there this morning. Fortunately we have a bit less to move and more room in the car since Peyton is in Michigan and we are here.
By the way T=0 is the actual transplant day (July 24th) and we count down so as of yesterday we had 21 days to BMT day and then we start count up afterward.
As I was saying, we started the Campath soon after 9:00 and within 15 minutes he had awoken from his sleep so I put him on my lap. Within maybe 10 more minutes, just as the nurse left, he started vomiting. So I called her in and she cleaned him up and I cleaned myself up. We left him in his bed as he had fallen back asleep. He again was restless after another 10 or so minutes and I tried to soothe him but again he vomited. After another round of clean up he wasn't fallen back asleep so I held him in the chair again. The nurse asked if I wanted any anti-nausea medication and I said lets just give it a few minutes and see if he falls back asleep. She left and almost immediatly he acted like he was going to get sick again but he didn't have anything left in him. So we gave him the anti-nausea and he finally was able to fall asleep. Near the end of the 2 hr infusion, just when I thought we were in the clear, my lap became very wet. So we had stopped it from coming out the top but it now moved to the bottom. Again a ring to the nurse and I had to break into the "Comfy" clothes that my college girlfriends had sent all of us and were waiting in our room when we arrived. Then the shakes started.. and the fever. I really wasn't prepared for the shakes which lasted over an hour. This was probably the hardest part as they wouldn't stop no matter how much I tried to hold him close and I know that how tight shaking makes your body. At about 1:00am those finally stopped and again we took position in the recliner. At about 2:30am I put him back in his bed and got some sleep myself, about 3 hrs worth. During that time they did give him more Tylenol and an Antibiotic which the Drs. said would most likely be needed since kiddos almost always have a fever.
Today we have ERT on top of the Campath and a sleep study tonight. It will be an interesting mix.
In other news - Paul wasn't feeling well yesterday so he went back to the hotel at around 2:00 so he missed the whole thing. Which is good since he doesn't do well with the gorey stuff and I will need a reprive today to do the laundry and make get a good nap in. We also got a call about noon yesterday saying we got into the RMH. What timing! So Paul is moving our stuff there this morning. Fortunately we have a bit less to move and more room in the car since Peyton is in Michigan and we are here.
By the way T=0 is the actual transplant day (July 24th) and we count down so as of yesterday we had 21 days to BMT day and then we start count up afterward.
Monday, July 1, 2013
The Week in Review: Unplugged and Busted!
Sorry I haven’t sent an update in the past week. I just needed a break from my so called blogworthy life and unplug from the digital matrix inclusive of work, emails, phone calls, facebook, my blog, etc. and just enjoy some time with my family to be frank, just in case…
My vacation time has been spent at hospitals this year and this past week was the last time that we were able to spend some time together prior to Coleson’s admittance to the hospital. Amongst, X-rays, EKGs, Echos, consults and the rest, we sprinkled in a trip to the mall of America, some pool time, some walks around a nearby lake, and some play time at a park nicknamed “Chutes and Ladders” for the numerous rope walls, slides, tunnels, etc.. The weather has been beautiful our entire trip; we were fortunate to leave AZ just before the record breaking heat. Our drive here wasn’t as bad as one would think. We ended our road trip with a stop in Clear Lake, Iowa and were fortunate to stumble upon a lake and park which reminded me of Grand Haven for you Michiganders. We stopped for 2 hrs to enjoy the sun and the beach and some live music in the park. We have not gotten into the RMH yet and looks like there is a bit of a wait list so we are staying at a hotel about 10 miles from the hospital. We did stop there one night for dinner to meet up with another Hurler family that was in town for a 2-year checkup and to discuss participation in a new trial for post-BMT ERT. It was really beneficial to meet another family and it gave us hope and inspiration. I have been communicating with the father since receiving the diagnosis and he has been very helpful.
We got the green light to proceed with the BMT and we signed the consent forms but not before we were told no less than 3 times of the risks, possible complications, side effects, and review all the drugs: Immunosuppressant, chemo, anti-nausea, antibiotics, antihistamines, antiseizure and pain reliever (do you think he might need this last one!). I’m sure I’m forgetting some. The doctors said something that really resonated with me about BMTs for Hurlers kids. It’s different than other BMTs as Hurler kids appear “Healthy” and you purposefully make them sick in order to make them better, whereas most BMTs the kids are already sick. Not that either situation is easy but it is difficult to think we are purposefully giving a “healthy” child chemo. Don’t get me wrong, we don’t really have a choice it’s just hard to think that in just 2 days he will go from being a vibrant little boy to a very sick one.
Lastly I turned a year older yesterday. It wasn’t the best birthday I’ve had but we did have lunch at my close grad school friend, Nicole’s house and Peyton got to play with her 2 girls. She even got me a birthday cookie. Then we had to drop Peyton and Grandma off at the airport and I had to say goodbye to my little girl for 2-3 weeks until they return before BMT day. I missed her instantly and don’t know how I will make it for that long of time with her. Not to mention having Grandma around was nice too. She takes good care of us.
Lastly if you are still reading this we has some excitement at the hotel last night. We had some noisy neighbors right below us for several nights and after getting a glance at them and their decked out hummer with gold bling we were convinced they were dealers… and not the blackjack kind! Well, after I awoke at 1:00am to the sounds of yelling and up and down the stairwell right beside us I hear a police bullhorn say “Put your hands up and get out of the car”. We witnessed the arrest of 6 people and saw the cops pull some baggies (white not green) and guns out of the hummer. We are not in a bad part of town or a bad hotel but I guess they have the money to stay in nice places! Needless to say, I hope next year’s birthday is a lot better. In fact, I could use a much better year!
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